Gone are the days of rigid dating formats where the man automatically picks up the tab. Today’s dating scene embraces equality, and finances are no exception.
Here’s the new format: communication is key. Discuss who pays before the date.
- Go Dutch: Split the bill evenly. This is a simple and fair approach, especially for early dates.
- Take Turns: Alternate who pays on future dates. This creates a balanced dynamic.
- Whoever Initiated: The person who asked for the date can offer to cover it.
- Consider the Activity: If one person chooses a pricier restaurant, they might offer to pay more, or vice versa.
The most important thing is open communication. Talking about finances upfront avoids awkwardness later and shows respect for each other’s budget.
Focus on getting to know each other and enjoy the date, not who pays the bill.